Who is a Hater?

Haters By Maya Angelou
A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their
time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.
They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever
good enough!

When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...

That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your
blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing
you blessed...

It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be
like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?

You never know what people have gone through to get what they
have...

The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they
don't know my story...

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you
can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!

We've all got some haters among us!

Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man/woman to hit the curb (if he/she isn't about the right thing)
e) Raise your children without both parents being in the home

Haters can't stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be on our side.

How do you handle your undercover haters?
You can handle these haters by:

1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are
*(VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not
mean having a job. You can have a job and still be
unfulfilled.

A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be.
Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.

3. By remembering what you have is by divine
prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your
time to leave this earth, you want to be able to say, 'I've lived my
life and fulfilled my dreams, Now I'm ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favour, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at
me...Look at who is in charge of me...'

Read this and share with all of your family & friends who you know are
not hating on you.Just pray for them haters,so that their life can be as fulfilled as
yours! Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't become
a HATER!

"Love your enemies for they are your mirror to reality..."

kichina china hapa!!

Katika shughuli/mpango mzima wakuongeza nanihii aka ndombolo kwakutumia teknolojia ya wale jamaa zetu wachina basi matokeo yake baadhi ndio kama haya. Ni vizuri watu kuchukua tahadhari unapo tumia madawa hayo ya kuongeza nanihii. Nasema hivo kwasababu mtaka yote siku zote hukosa yote.Pamoja na habari hii kuna waume kwa wanawake wengi ambao wamekwisha tumia hizi dawa za jamaa zetu wachina na wengine kwa lengo la kuongeza nanilii ila matokeo yake si kama walivyotaka. Mfano kuna mwanaume ambaye alikua na nanihii ndogo kakimbiwa sana na wake kwa udogo wa nanihii yake akaona suluhisho ni mchina matokea nanihii ilikua kubwa kupita size za kawaida kwahio akaanza kukimbiwa kwa ukubwa wa mzigo.

Hali kadhalika wanawake waliotaka kuongeza kidogo ndombolo/makalio waliharibikiwa na shepu na mpango mzima makalioni kwani panaweza ongezeka ambapo hapatakiwi hivo kuharibu mpango mzima wa eneo hilo.Tuwe makini na hizo dawa vinginevyo ukiwa kama hawa usimlaumu mtu kwani ni uamuzi wako kumkosoa muumba!

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kazi ni kazi tu...

Ule msemo wa kazi ni kazi na riziki ni popote ili mradi mkono uende kinywani unaji dhihirisha katika picha hii. Mimi nilidhani haya mambo ni ya ngozi nyeusi tu! kumbe hata weupe wamo!! sasa tuache ubitozi tufanye kazi!!!! Katika pita pita zangu nimegundua kufanya baadhi ya kazi ulaya kumepewa jina maarufu kama KUPIGA BOX kwa baadhi ya kazi ( kama hio kazi yako........heheheh), kwahio TUPIGE BOX kama tunataka pesa of which najua kila mtu anazitaka kwahio tupige kazi kwa bidii kama huyu mama japo kwa namna mbali mbali kutokana na nafasi zetu ili tuweze peleka mkono kinywani vitu kama Burger, wings,vodka na mbege kama ipo unaweza nunua ukiwa na pesa!!! Ulaya kila kitu pesa ati!




Fanya kazi!!!!

Helpful kids......

Ni vizuri sana na ni furaha kwakweli kuona mtoto wako anakusaidia kazi za nyumbani.Japo familia nyingi wanaonekana kusaidia kazi hizo ni wasichana. Hata hivyo wapo walio sikika wakilalamika kwanini watoto wakike ndio wafanye hizo kazi hususani wale wakusoma ambao wanahitaji pata muda wa kujisomea warudipo nyumbani! kama ilivyo ada kwa watoto wakiume ambao kazi za jikoni si kawaida kuona wakisaidia.(hii ni kwa watoto walio day) mie ningetaka kusoma boarding straight kama mambo yenyewe ndo hayo hehehe japo unakua unajifunza kazi za jikoni pindi utapoa anza maisha yako.

Mtu anaweza cheka hili jambo ila ni aibu kuna watu unakuta ashakua mtu mzima hajui hata kuosha sahani ama kijiko.Zamani kuna baadhi ya shule walikua wanafundisha cookery course ambayo sijawahi ona mtoto wa kiume anasoma (Late 90s pale Njombe secondari maarufu kama NJOSS) Ila sina shaka na wale ambao wameishi ulaya maana ifikapo muda wa kurudi makwao wanakua wanakaribia kua ma-chef kabisa maana huku lazima ujue kupika ama sivyo utaishia kula burger na junk food ukaharishe vizuri nyumbani kwako hahahhahha.... Well, nilichotaka kusema hapa ni kua makini na mtoto anayekusaidia na kile anacho kusaidia vinginevyo haitakua kusaidia bali uharibifu wa vitu vyako kama ionekanavyo kwa hio picha. yaani sina mbavu na hio picha naona mama mtoto ashituka na kushindwa kushangaa....

kuwa makini na facebook maana......

yaani hii ni sawa na ile ''if walls could sing'', kuta zinaficha mengi ama kila mtu anacho fanya kingekua visible kwa wote. hehehhe nadhani watu labda watu wangekua makini na matendo yao. Kama uonavyo pichani mdada yamempata anajua mwenyewe alicho kosea lakini hayo ndo mambo yanayo jiri kwenye inbox nyingi facebook, sasa ukikosea ukaandika kwenye wall mambo yanakua kama yanavyo onekana hapo kwa picha. Tujiunge....!!






ungekua wewe ndo hii imekutokea ungefanyaje?

Pata ujumbe mzuri kwa kusoma hii

This is beautiful. Read it to the end...the message is awesome!!!

By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay..

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something.. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to.......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .......

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth......

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you.

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge.....

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction... ..

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents

LET IT GO!!!

If you! u have a bad attitude.... ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him.........

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship. ....

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves.. ....

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ............

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying 'take your hands off of it,' then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

'The Battle is the Lord's!'

During the next 60 seconds, Stop whatever you are doing, and take this opportunity.. ..

(Literally it is only ONE minute!)

All you have to do is the following:

You simply say 'The Lords Prayer' for the person that sent you this message:

The Lords Prayer

Our Father, who are in Heaven, Hallowed be Thy Name, Thy Kingdom Come, Thy Will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.

For Thine is the Kingdom, and the Power, and the Glory, forever.

Amen.

Next, send this message to everyone you know. In a while, more people will have prayed for you and you would have obtained a lot of people praying for others!

Next, stop and think and appreciate God's power in your life, for doing what you know is pleasing to Him.


If you are not ashamed to do this, follow the instructions!

Jesus said, If you are ashamed of me, I will be ashamed of you before My Father'


'Yes, I love my God. He is my fountain of Life and My Savior.

He Keeps me going day and night. Without Him, I am no one. But with Him, I can do everything, Christ is my strength.' This is a simple test.

If you love God and you are not ashamed of all the great things that He has done for you, send this to everyone you know.

God loves you and watches over you everyday

Vitu vinavyo udhi katika maisha ya kila siku

1.kutaka usalimiwe ikiwa wewe hutaki kusalimia
2.kutafsiri mtu kwa namna aonekanavyo mfano: mkimya anadharau, hapendi ongea na watu, anajiona; muongeaji sana: atasemwa mwongo, mr/miss misifa, anajifanya mjuaji (maarufu kama much know!!!); ukiwa mnene a.k.a bonge: watasema manyama uzembe, mvivu na usiombe uwe na kitambi simalizii watakayosema hehehe!! ( au sema wewe, unadhani watasemaje?)
3.kudharau mtu mwingine labda kwa kipato chake kidogo ili hali mwenye kipato cha wastani ama kikubwa hana uhusiano wowote na asiye nacho na hata kama kuna uhusiano kuwa nacho si kudharau asiye nacho kwani riziki ya mtu hupangwa na Mungu
4. Kulewa na kusumbua wengine
5.kudharau kazi, wadhifa,elimu,kipato,maisha,kabila,makazi,mavazi ya wengine
6. Kutongoza demu/mchumba/mke wa rafiki/ndugu yako (Tena bila aibu!!!!)
7.Kushika simu ya mwenzio na kuanza ku-browse phone book, gallery (kuangalia picha),kusoma meseji n.k
8. kuweka pass word kwenye simu ( hasa wapenzi!!!), unaficha nini????
9.kushika simu/computer ya mtu na kuanza kufanya settings bila ruhusa. Mfano simu: kubadiri ring tone, theme, menu n.k; Computer: kubadiri back ground,menu na kufungua files na kuanza kusoma ya humo
10.kutaka heshimiwa bila kuheshimu
11.Kuchunguza na kuzungumzia maisha ya mtu asiye kuhusu nap engine humjui na mbaya zaidi unajua haya kuhusu!
12.kumdharau usiye mjua
13. kumwelezea mtu usiye mjua kwa lolote.

Endeleza nyingine unazo zijua wewe hapo!
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